3 Remarkable Self-Love Tips From BTS Love Yourself

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Self-love is the foundation of a healthy lifestyle. I know I’m repeating myself here, but that’s the biggest and most important message I have to share with you here at Ms. Health-Esteem. Love yourself wholly, love yourself fiercely. Everything else can fall into place around that.

Which is why I was so incredibly pleased when I saw a globally recognized K-pop band giving a UN speech about the importance of self-love. Isn’t that absolutely amazing?

Ever since BTS Love Yourself (their last album), this fantastic group from South Korea have been on a mission to share the importance of loving yourself. And their UN speech was nothing short of inspiring.

3 quotes stuck out to me. Full of powerful, life changing messages about self-love. And since we can all always use a little more self-love inspiration I wanted to share these lessons with you.

So, without further adieu, here are 3 remarkable self-love tips from BTS love yourself:

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Why We’re talking about BTS Love Yourself

If it seems a little silly that a Healthy Lifestyle blogger is talking about BTS, I feel ya! But hear me out. This is about far more than my adoration for K-pop… (Fun fact, that’s my typical workout music ;))

Last year BTS (an awesome K-pop band you should absolutely check out, for those who don’t know) released an album called Love Yourself, exploring and promoting the idea of self-love.

To keep this powerful message going they started the Love Myself campaign with UNICEF as an extension and sponsorship of UNICEF’s #ENDviolence. Together they have raised funds to protect and support young people who have been victims of violence and/or sexual assault and provide education to local communities for violence prevention. (source)

Why self-love?

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BTS chose to focus on self-love because they believe that when you find love for yourself you have more love to give others. Practicing self-love is better for our own well-being and the well-being of our society as a whole. I bet you can imagine that this self-love advocate was pretty happy to hear that!

The coolest part?

Kim Nam-joon (known by his stage name RM), with the support of his band mates, gave an incredibly thoughtful speech about self-love at the UN as part of their Love Myself partnership with UNICEF. (Watch it here).

BTS Love Yourself has led to so much goodness and has had a wonderful impact (I mean, a UN speech is kind of a big deal!)

So let’s take a look at 3 inspiring quotes from BTS’ speech and discuss the self-love lessons we can take from them.

3 Remarkable Self-Love Tips from BTS Love Yourself

1. “True love first begins with loving myself.”

There’s an age old saying (that we’ve all likely heard a million times) about how you can’t love anyone else until you love yourself. And while that may not be entirely true, the way we feel about ourselves has a major impact on the relationships we form and how we view them.

When we have low self-esteem we tend to feel less satisfied with our relationships and less optimistic about the future. Our lack of self-love can even lead us to underestimate how much our partners love us. When we don’t feel good about ourselves it’s hard to believe that someone else could feel good about us. (source)

Even worse, feeling low on self-love often leads us to enter more negative relationships…  it makes us more likely to select and stay with partners who don’t treat us well.

This is all part of self-verification.

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According to Dr. Bill Swann, a Professor of Social and Personality Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin, people desire self-verification. We want to be known and understood by others. But that knowledge and understanding starts within. (source)

Dr. Swann’s research and Self-Verification Theory shows that once we have a firmly held belief about ourselves we like to surround ourselves with others who see us in the same way. Even if those beliefs are negative.

A low sense of self-value can lead us to feel drawn towards people who also don’t value us. It can make us feel like we aren’t deserving of happiness or a positive outcome. (source)

What can we take away from all of this?

That love really does start with you. We are all worthy of self-love and self-acceptance. And it’s really important that we work on that.

Ultimately, learning to value yourself allows you to see that you also deserve to be valued by others. You’re more likely to make sure that your relationships are supportive and loving. You’ll see them in a more positive light. And you won’t force yourself to remain in an unhappy situation because you’ll know that you really do deserve better.

See how all of that goodness came from self-love? How awesome is that?

Related: Need a little help? Here are 8 ways to work on self-acceptance.

2. “Maybe I made a mistake yesterday, but yesterday’s me is still me. Today, I am who I am with all of my faults and my mistakes. Tomorrow, I might be a tiny bit wiser, and that will be me too.”

I like to think of self-love as a blend of self-esteem, self-compassion and self-acceptance. It’s about celebrating your value and adoring your uniqueness, yes. But it also includes acknowledging your faults, recognizing your weaknesses and fully accepting it all. Like R.M. showed us in this beautiful quote from his BTS Love Yourself UN Speech.

Why would you love and accept a fault, weakness or mistake?

Because all of that adds up to you! And aren’t marvelous just as you are? I think so!

To quote B.J. Neblett, you are the sum of your experiences. Positive, negative, simple or difficult… they all add up to the person you are today.

Leon F. Seltzer, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist and the author of Paradoxical Strategies in Psychotherapy has this to say about accepting ourselves, faults and all:

“You need to recognize that given your defenses, blind spots, insecurities, and the harmful things you may have been exposed to, you really are doing the best you can—and have been all along. Additionally, you need to stop evaluating yourself according to standards that don’t really fit who you are, or what you can realistically expect of yourself.” (Source)

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Realizing that you don’t need to be some mythical better version of yourself to be worthy of love is such an important step. Perfection is an impossibility and has no place with us on our self-love journey. There will never be a you that is without fault. There’s no version of anyone that is without fault. And that’s ok!

We are all worthy just as we are, right now, beautiful flaws and all.

Related: Self love isn’t always easy! But each tiny step takes us in an amazing direction. If you need a hand, here are 8 Ways to Love Yourself Fiercely (Your Health Will Thank You).

3. “I have come to love myself for who I am, for who I was, and for who I hope to become.”

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This beautiful thought further inspires us to love ourselves for who we were and who we are, faults, mistakes and all. But it also provides an important reminder that self-love isn’t about complacency.

Loving and accepting yourself as you are right now doesn’t mean that having dreams, goals or aspirations for self-improvement are wrong.

You can have ambitions and still love yourself as you are. That’s part of the point of this quote from R.M’s BTS Love Yourself UN Speech. You’re allowed to strive, to dream, to grow. As long as you don’t withhold self-love until you achieve those things.

We all want and deserve to grow and learn. But we can’t hold our self-love for ransom until we blossom into some mythical “better” version of ourselves.

Who you were, who you are and who you will become are all just as worthy of self-love.

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You are already so incredibly full of goodness. And when you realize that and you start to honour what an incredible person you already are, things change. Because any change that you strive for is no longer about fixing a broken and valueless self, it’s about acknowledging that you’re already bursting with goodness and you’re just looking to create more.

Life is tough. You are worthy of your own love. And you deserve to have your own back. No matter where you are in your journey.

Related: Want to learn more about practicing Self-love? Here are 3 Things You Need to Know.

Your turn! What advice on self-love do you have to share? Have you heard of BTS Love Yourself before? Did you watch the UN Speech? Are there any self-love quotes that have let you feeling inspired? Share your thoughts, ideas and experiences with us in the comments below.

Health and love,

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29 Comments

  1. Reply

    Nicole

    October 10, 2018

    I really look forward to your posts, they are always so inspiring! What a great message BTS is trying to spread, I hope many people hear it!

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      Sara

      October 15, 2018

      Aww thank you so much Nicole! That makes my entire day <3. I'm so grateful for your kindness!

      And I couldn't agree more! I'm so happy to see someone using their global platform to share such an important message. I think that we can all always use an extra reminder to love ourselves fiercely. Makes me so happy to see someone talking about it at the UN of all places! Here's hoping it continues to inspire tons of goodness 🙂

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    Jamie

    October 10, 2018

    I’ve never heard it BTS but I’m definitely going to have to check them out!! I love the spirit of positivity and the idea of loving yourself to become lovable and to accept your whole self even your past mistakes. I’ll let you know how we like them and for sure loving their message! ❤️ Jamie

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      I’d love to hear what you think! They’re one of my go-tos for workout music haha. Here’s one of their more recent ones. Good to groove to 😉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTlv5_Bs8aw

      I’m so impressed with their message. I think it’s amazing that they’re using their position in the limelight to spread more goodness and work with awesome organizations like UNICEF. Blows me away :).

      Wishing you well gorgeous! Have a beautiful week <3

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    brianatrev

    October 10, 2018

    Self love is so important! I love the quotes the best!

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    paige

    October 11, 2018

    these quotes are so inspiring – i love how you elaborated on each, such amazing messages that we all need to hear every now and then 🙂 x

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      I’m so happy you felt inspired too Paige! I really do think that we all need that awesome reminder to love ourselves fiercely every now and again. So happy to see someone using their position on the global stage to spread such an amazing message 🙂

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    kidneyfornikki

    October 11, 2018

    I love the positivity! As you know, I write a lot about self-love and self-development, too. You always point out something that I did not consider — your posts are thought-provoking. Thanks for sharing!

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      Aww thank you so much Nikki! That makes my entire day :). And I am so incredibly grateful that you also strive to share such an important message. The world can always use a little more love. And self-love is such an amazing place to start ^^. Thank you for working hard to make sure people know they deserve to love themselves fiercely <3.

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    Sharon McCaskill | The Helpful GF

    October 11, 2018

    Thanks for sharing these! Having a positive outlook is SO important.

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      It really is! I think it’s amazing how such a simple (and yet also sometimes incredibly difficult) activity can do so much for your health. Like improve your mood, reduce depression, boost your immune and cardiovascular health… I could nerd out about it all day! We all deserve that. 🙂

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    pappasw

    October 13, 2018

    Thank you, This is the first time I have heard of BTS, thank you for spreading their postivie message.

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      I’m so happy you’re feeling inspired! Let me know what you think if you listen to their music. It’s my go to for workouts xD. I’m so happy their using their time in the limelight to spread such an important message 🙂

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    J

    October 14, 2018

    Always looking for kid friendly beats! Thanks for the share.

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      You’re welcome J! So glad you’re excited to check them out 🙂

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    Mama Doc

    October 14, 2018

    Music can give us so many messages! I love #3, where they say “I have come to love myself for who I am, for who I was, and for who I hope to become.” Instead of being our harshest critic, sometimes the best thing we can do is love and accept ourselves as we are. Thanks for these thoughts!

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      I couldn’t agree with you more Michelle! We really do need to love and accept ourselves through our life journey. We deserve to feel like we’re on our side :). Thank you so much for sharing your lovely thoughts <3

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    Ashley Nicole Photographer

    October 15, 2018

    I was just talking about this with a friend. I’ve learned over the years that self acceptance has been freeing.

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      Isn’t it so beautifully liberating Ashley? I’m really happy you’ve come to that conclusion too. We all deserve it! Wishing you the most amazing self-love journey 🙂

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    Samantha Kresz

    October 16, 2018

    More self love is something I’m working on. Might have to start listening to BTS. They have some really great messages.

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      I’m so happy to hear that Samantha! That’s wonderful. We all deserve to have an awesome, loving relationship with ourselves. It’s a continuous journey with it’s own ups and downs but man is it ever worth it! Wishing you well <3. And I hope you have fun diving into BTS' music too. Let me know what you think 🙂

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    wordsofntemid

    October 17, 2018

    More love….more life!

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      I couldn’t agree more! <3

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        wordsofntemid

        October 18, 2018

        ❤️

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    Tina Basu

    October 17, 2018

    self love is something hat i have started practising recently. For long I have been doing things for others now i should do little for myself too.

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      Sara

      October 17, 2018

      That’s awesome Tina! You really do deserve to do things for you. And to create a loving relationship with yourself that makes you feel awesome. Self-love is a continuous journey and, like with any relationship, has it’s ups and downs but it’s so worth it! Enjoy every second <3. Sending tons of love your way 🙂

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    Sheila Price

    October 17, 2018

    I love this view of self love that involves both self-acceptance and self-improvement. This brings perfect balance to a very misunderstood subject.

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      Sara

      October 26, 2018

      I’m so happy you think so too Sheila! I couldn’t agree more. Self-love is so important and really needs to be talked about and explored further. 🙂 Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts!

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